Shared by Flavour Mang’ula
Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.
Carelessness is one of the major causes of affairs in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So abide with the following simple rules and you will never fall into adultery…
Friends…
1: Never make a member of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.
2: Never be with a member of the opposite sex at a time your spouse doesn’t know you are there.
3: Never speak evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone. they will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you insincere affections and give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you.
5: Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife / husband you visited.
Secrecy
6: Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse, AFFAIRS thrive in secrecy.
7: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite sex, there should be somebody of your sex you can talk to. don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.
8: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite sex. They will ask for sex in return. they are not Father Christmas.
9: Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife. you don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home. what you see outside is just show biz don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.
10: Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.
11: Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, only faces differ it is the same package.
12: Deal with any sexual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. Sexual error doesn’t begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.
Precautions
14: Before traveling have sex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have sex until you come back. that decision may save your life and destiny.
15: Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and imagine what is there. It is stupid, childish and dirty to do that, that’s called lust, what is there isn’t different from what your spouse has, please don’t be stupid sir.
16: Walk in the company of good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterers, you will become adulterous.
17: Discuss your sexual desires with your spouse and let it be met at home, don’t hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.
Intimacy with God
18: fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.
20: Always count the cost of adultery, don’t just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.
21: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills in sex is just 8 seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?
BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.
22: Pray regularly for your Spouse and your marriage. It is well.
God bless your marriage (Home).
