The point I am making is that the journey of singleness can be easy or hard, depending on how we choose to live it out.
Will you surrender your love life fully to the Father? Or will you try to take control of it on your own?
I can assure you that the latter will not make you joyous amid your singleness; instead, it will leave you tired and desperate.
The only way to pure and simple joy is to surrender to God during all seasons of your life and trust what only He knows, and what He will reveal to you in His time.