The Many Ways to Bless
The first order of blessing is reflected by the simplest things we might do, which, though seemingly ordinary, carry an immense weight in telling children they are loved, cared for, valued and being “looked over” (rather than overlooked).
Remember those childhood experiences when you simply sensed the approval or care of a parent or loved one? We can learn from the ultimate Father by noting how He blesses us with His attentions in distinct ways that parallel our warmest memories as children when someone blessed us in simple yet affirming ways:
An arm over the shoulder or an embrace in a time of disappointment or fear (see Deut. 33:27)
A pat on the back or a firm steadying hand at a crucial moment (see Ps. 139:5)
A whisper in the ear, giving quiet assurance or secret instructions (see Is. 30:21)
A snug tucking in bed when surrounded by the darkness of night (see Ps. 127:2-3)
A kiss on the cheek or being dandled on a parent’s knee (see Ps. 103:13; “pities” is translated from the Hebrew word rawcham, which means “to tenderly love or caress”).
However, the most affirming are those blessings that come in words: (1) words that affirm and approve; (2) words that commend and compliment; (3) words that specifically speak love and affection; (4) words that invoke hope and self-confidence; and (5) words that answer pain and disappointment with support and faith.
