A decade of marriage has taught Kanjii a thing or two about women.
“I believe all women are different but being intentional is a huge thing,” he says. “It’s about creating moments, beautiful memories,” he says.
Kanjii emphasises on the need to recognise a moment of tenderness, jokes or whatever binds you two. “Be sensitive and aware of your partner’s needs and wants,” he says.
Kanjii admits to having made tons of mistakes on their journey but says that everything they have done has brought them where they are. Being in the limelight definitely has earned him a lot of fans, especially women.
Being a popular musician, how does he deal with female attention? I wonder.
“I live my life oblivious of the attention,” says Kanjii. “I make sure I don’t open any doors whatsoever and respect what we have with Mwendie. Maybe it bothers Mwendie but you would have to ask her,” says Kanjii with a laugh.
The Mbuguas say that their marriage has stood the test of time because they are friends. They confess to laughing a lot and talking equally as much.
“She is the first person I want to share with anything new happening in my life,” says Kanjii. He confesses it was a drastic change for both of them when they got married but are still the same people all these years later.
Mentorship in marriage
