For this you can make arrangements to have a house manager for both of you to have quality time to relax after days hard work as you do a postmortem. Or if your partner is open can assist with house chores.
2. Family members rules and regulations
How to deal with family members or extended family members who visity or have come for various reasons to look for work, treatment, appointments, to visit urban towns.
Its good to have a plan beforehand and know how to handle each case so as not hurt each other as a couple. With Africans it’s a challenge with visitors, especially if u have small space, it will be good to come to an agreement how to handle it, if anything comes up.
3. Finances
You should discuss your finances, bank accounts if you will have joint bank account for family running or investment. As you share your responsibilities it will be easy to plan who does what. It doesn’t matter nowadays if the woman earns more or the man, planning and agreeing who does what. If there is love you don’t need to hide anything from your spouse.
If you are not comfortable letting your partner know your pocket details, then don’t bother getting married to them. Marriage is invasive and little to no secrets will be left as time goes on so be sure you are comfortable with this person knowing all about your bank account. The issue of lending money to friends and family also needs to be discussed.
