Marriage is God ordained institution which cannot be quashed nor trash by anybody nor any power. But the enemy is wise enough to know if he sets the families free and in peace, he will be losing the battle.
That is why he has been fighting marriages and families to bring them down. May we open our eyes and see what the enamies intentions are and as a team fight by all biblical means to uphold your relationship, family.
This is are just few points to help ladies and some to gentlemen to fight for their union, family.
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15:1).
2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other’s keeper.(Eph 5:12).
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.(Prov 15:13).
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11:22).
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2:24).
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5:33).
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3:28).
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6:9).
11). Never compare your husband to your ex-lover. Your home may never recover from it if you do.(Song of Songs S 5:9).
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31:23).
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.(Eph 4:31).
