The singer, who is married to gospel DJ, DJ Mo, in their vlog, said that partners should always be ready to forgive each other in a relationship even when cheating occurs, Mpasho reports.
“And whoever says they cannot forgive, that is a root of pride,” she said. “Who tells you cannot do that?”
Size 8 has been married for five years now. In her marriage, of course, she has experienced ups and downs but rainy days come and go.
She told her fans cheating shouldn’t be allowed in marriages but in case it happens, couples should find a way to get past it.
“So when your spouse cheats, remember you cheat on God all the time but God forgives you. So forgive your spouse,”
“Maybe you are a wife or a husband and your spouse cheated on you and you are like, ‘oh god mimi siwezi kucheat, he is horrible or she is horrible’. The only thing that makes you not cheat is grace. So, forgive.
“In a marriage where there is forgiveness, you enjoy each other’s. You are also able to capitalize on the good stuff.
“But kama munaboil na maissues, issues all the time you can never enjoy. Even when the other person is being nice you cannot notice.
“We wear the righteousness of christ, so lazima you forgive. And whoever says they cannot forgive, that is a root of pride. Who tells you cannot do that?
“The only reason that makes you not do what the other person is doing is the grace of god. It is by grace we don’t sin. Don’t sit there, ujiangalie [saying] ‘oh please!!!’.”