God has built into a man a strong desire to be the initiator in relationships. That’s part of his manhood. He wants to seize the challenge.
The Bible says, “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord” (Proverbs 18:22). It does not say, “She who goes looking!” A man loves the pursuit. Trust me. When he sees what he wants, he goes after it. If a man you adore is not pursuing you, he is not interested in you.
Let’s settle this once and for all. He is not shy. You do not intimidate him. He does not need your help. One of my brothers (who had a lot of experience dating) told me: “If a man is interested, no distance will stand in the way. But if he is not interested, you can live next door, and that’s too far for him to go.”