“The thing that has really shaken me as a person and also shook our marriage with my husband was the death of our babies and also having a preemie baby,” she said.

Mukami added:
“Because you can never really prepare for these things even when you’re having premarital classes. You never talk about what happens when you lose a baby how do you deal with it. Maybe you prepare for some tragedies like if a spouse cheats or you’re not getting along. Those are some of the things that we prepare for.”